Think Good Thoughts!

In Loving Memory of Nicky Bosch

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Love is Always the Answer.

justlovenobs.com is dedicated to the memory of my wife Nicky Bosch. Nicky died in 2017 after being diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer. Her battle with this uncurable disease lasted less than 6 months from diagnosis.
Nicky’s beautiful last words to all of her friends and family were simple and bold. Keep Thinking Good Thoughts.

“I was blessed to spend close to 20 years with this beautiful extraordinary woman. Nicky was special, she was truly one of a kind and she made me a better man. I hope to spread her message and help people. Thinking Good Thoughts and sharing with anybody that will listen. ” Jared Bosch

I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.

Marilyn Monroe

Nicky looked up to Marilyn Monroe. They were the same size and this gave Nicky confidence because she did struggle with her self-esteem. Being what some would call a bigger girl, Nicky loved the way Marilyn proved that it’s all a part of your attitude.

Nicky loved the Zodiac and following her horoscope daily. She would often send me texts in the morning with a link to our daily fortunes. I am listing all of them here because the signs fascinate me as well. Some days, our fortunes were more then coincidental, or so it would seem. For the record, I am an Aquarius. Nicky and I were Fire and Ice, that’s all I can really tell ya! What’s your sign?

Nicky Bosch
December 3, 1982

What’s Your Sign?

Capricorn

Dec 22 – Jan 19

Aqaurius

Jan 20 – Feb 18

Pisces

Feb 19 – March 20

Aries

March 21 – April 19

Taurus

April 20 – May 20

Gemini

May 21 – June 20

Cancer

June 20 – July 20

Leo

July 23- Aug 22

Virgo

Aug 23 – Sept 22

Libra

Sept 23 – Oct 22

Scorpio

Oct 23 – Nov 21

Sagittarius

Nov 22 – Dec 23

Nicky loved to Colour. It was her escape from the world. Where she could relax and let her imagination run free.

She was very talanted, her colouring always makes me smile. Her colouring is amazing, she had an incredible sense of colours and the way Nicky shades her work, sometimes the objects leap off the page.

What’s really significant about the colouring to me is, it was another way for Nicky to relate to people.

Not just relate but empower. I mean that.

Colouring is a form of self expression. In today’s world, even exposing a little bit of who you are can be tough. Nicky encouraged her friends, and they coloured together.

Words of Wisdom on Happiness

by Jared | November 10, 2017 | Just Love No BS | 0 Comments

I think happiness is what makes you pretty. Period. Happy people are beautiful. They become like a mirror and they reflect that happiness.

10 Misconceptions about Cancers, and the Facts to Debunk Them

by Jared | August 23, 2017 | Living With Cancer | 0 Comments

History is the bane of most modern theories, but does that mean history is always right? In a lot of things today, there are certain misconceptions that have been allowed to stand the course of time. Even though most of them has not been disproved by science, that...

I’m Strong, My Support Systems are Stronger

by Jared | February 16, 2018 | Just Love No BS | 2 Comments

I haven't written a post for a while and it has been for a few different reasons. I can let the simplest of details be the excuse or I can just tell you that life caught up to me, the way it does all of us. The real truth is I have been melancholy. I know I'm strong,...

Filling The Void With Gratitude

by Jared | January 22, 2018 | Just Love No BS | 0 Comments

Filling The Void With Gratitude For lack of better words the only explanation that I have for missing a few weeks of writing something would be writers block. I am confused and there are often times that I still feel lost. It can be a bit of a skipping record I guess,...

10 Ways to Love Yourself

by Jared | January 9, 2018 | Just Love No BS | 3 Comments

It is really easy to get lost in the hectic mess of a day in the life. Any life. We all have are ups and downs and things that happen to us. Things that affect us individually and as families. Challenges, some that are within our control and some that are not. Having...

Thinking Good Thoughts for 2018

by Jared | January 1, 2018 | Just Love No BS | 2 Comments

Up until now, I think there has been a hint of sadness written with the posts for Justlovenobs.com Moving forward we want to emphasize the words to heart, Thinking Good Thoughts for 2018. And beyond. There is absolutely no doubt that losing my spouse was forever life...

Stress Relief Meditation in Colouring

by Jared | December 18, 2017 | Colouring | 0 Comments

Remembering it is Sunday is my day with Nicky always makes me smile. I have been refusing to think anything but good thoughts. I am reading, I am going to the gym and I am making changes to my diet, and my thinking. On Sunday realize there is stress relief in...

A Sexy Role Model

by Jared | December 10, 2017 | Just Love No BS | 0 Comments

I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.

Nicky Only Knew How To Give

by Jared | December 8, 2017 | Nickys Story | 2 Comments

That's It, That's All. Those were Nicky's favourite words, spoken from her father, Martin Stockley. It was kind of like the family motto. Martin was a tough guy, on the outside. On the inside this man taught me more about love and respect because he lived by example....

Happy Birthday Nicky

by Jared | December 3, 2017 | Nickys Story | 7 Comments

I love you. Thinking Good Thoughts. Just Love No BS baby. That's It That's All, just like you used to say Martin Stockley. I will never ever forget how much you meant to your daughter, and how important you made her in your life. I always said if I could be half the...

Get to Know Nicky and What She Stood For!

by Jared | November 28, 2017 | Nickys Story | 8 Comments

Hi, I would like you to meet my wife Nicky Bosch. She passed away on May 27 2017 after being diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma cancer just 5 months earlier. It does not get any easier to write about it, much less think about it everyday. However, that is not the...

Cassidy and Nicky, Wild and Free Spirits Forever!

by Jared | November 21, 2017 | Just Love No BS | 0 Comments

Nicky was a special spirit. She was very wild and beeing free just goes without saying. That is part of what love is. A freedom, a certain strength that empowers you, that can lift you up and help break the chains. Cassidy, This is for you, Because you are Beautiful....

This is probably my most prized colouring of Nicky’s. The Dragon was a sketch that she had picked up and started. It was not finished because she was tired. Nicky had stopped colouring for a while to rest.

I didn’t know that exactly when I saw this Dragon. I just made comment on how cool it was, I told her I couldn’t wait for it to be coloured in.

This was the end result and Nicky gave it to me that night. I love looking at it, and yes it was just one more gesture to remind me of how much my wife loved me. Thanks for the Dragon babe.