Who was Nicky

Who was Nicky

Hi, I would like you to meet my wife Nicky Bosch. She passed away on May 27 2017 after being diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma cancer just 5 months earlier. It does not get any easier to write about it, much less think about it everyday. However, that is not the purpose...
I am Stronger with a friend called hope

I am Stronger with a friend called hope

I haven’t written a post for a while and it has been for a few different reasons. I can let the simplest of details be the excuse or I can just tell you that life caught up to me, the way it does all of us. The real truth is I have been melancholy. I know...
The Truth Shall Set You Free

The Truth Shall Set You Free

And it does.  Since writing the about page for this website and trying to move on in my life, I have felt the burden lift off my shoulders. The weight of the guilt and the regret has not disappeared completely but it won’t ever keep me from moving forward...
The Happy Advantage Makes you Happier!

The Happy Advantage Makes you Happier!

Ok, now it’s scientific so nobody can argue! This is a presentation from a very smart, very happy guy. I mean I think looks pretty happy and he really does sound like he is having a great time.Be HappyHe is Doing what he loves for sure. You can see the smile on...
Healing Everyday

Healing Everyday

It has been a long time, at least to me since I have posted anything here.  Of course there are a whole bunch of different reasons. A lot of them will probably be mentioned in this post. I should warn you too, especially if you know me; This post is going to be long....
Finding Your Power Within

Finding Your Power Within

It has been close to a month since I have published a post here.  There are so many different mixed emotions when trying to continue.  Associating the grief I experience as well as all of the joy. I think as human beings we often forget that we are meant to...
Nicky is at Peace

Nicky is at Peace

When I stared this website, I knew at one point it would become a memorial, a true dedication to her. She told me when I started it she understood that. Nicky said if it could help us, or anybody out there, I should do it. Help with what exactly, I still struggle...
Enjoy the time together

Enjoy the time together

There are a lot of things said here, that are said for the reasons of comfort, and reminder.  They are things said not just here but all over the world every day as people cope.  When I write on this site I sometimes forget it was a coping mechanism at the...
Home again from the hospital

Home again from the hospital

Let’s remember, and I am trying to keep this in mind for myself, these posts are supposed to be positive and about our story.  We want to relate with other survivors. I use the word survivors because each day does have its struggles.  Coming home from...
The Answer is Always Love

The Answer is Always Love

It is still just one word that means so many different things to different people. Talking about it scares some people away for whatever reason.  I believe that anybody with an open mind is willing to look at any discussion for perspective.  Because love...
How a Person Beats cancer

How a Person Beats cancer

We all know it is possible as there are survivors of the disease that are proof you can overcome.  The battle is a long fought one.  It will wear on the person and their loved ones in ways that are incomprehendible until you actually experience them. So what...